I enjoy running. Many of us do. Recently a friend told me she enjoys doing high fives with other runners she meets on the trail. This excited me because I totally get my connection with other people, and how it raises our vibrational energy to be friendly and offer some sort of a hello as we pass each other. So, I decided to give it a try. To my disappointment, I noticed people backing away. Then I realized the width of my trail is really wide, so I may have been threatening just a little. I chuckled within, and came to the conclusion that I would continue enjoying a friendly wave, and a cheerful hello.
Then, as I was going home, I stopped at the market and parked next to someone who was having car trouble. The tow truck was blocking my exit out of the parking spot. The tow truck attendant apologized and promised to move it right away. When I smiled and said no problem, it spurred a conversation with the stranded driver about how nice people are who live in my town.
Both of these experiences made for a lovely morning. However, had I reacted differently, I may not have enjoyed such good feelings. How often do we think only of ourselves and our agenda for the day or week, and forget to be kind, thoughtful or forgiving? I believe we do not truly understand our connection with those around us. I believe people come into our lives for reasons beyond our comprehension. I have enjoyed studying this and seeing the purpose of some of the connections. I have experienced connections when I was young that pass by the way side for many years only to come back to me in full force. It’s a witness to me that the connect has real purpose. Take some time today to find some joy as you analyze your connections with others. It’s very healing to find the blessing in each connection and express gratitude for it.
I am a smile-r. It works for me. So far I haven’t been attacked for my positive attitude! Let’s keep it up!!
Love it, Tina!
Great reminder to stay present with ourselves and others. It’s easy to get “separated” in this fast-paced world. Thanks!
Thank you Jen. It certainly is!
Absolutely agree with “people come into our lives for a reason” i meet different people everyday that affect me. I actually like talking with different people that i just meet..
Me, too, Rob 🙂
Great post. Very positive. My dad always taught me that it costs nothing to smile and say hello
I have a friend who said he smiles and says hello to everyone because his sight is bad and he wouldn’t want someone he knows to think he’s stuck up! LOL!
Good on you spreading the message of loving joy! Thank you! <3
Thank you Sasha!
i love running while dancing…straight lines are difficult for me!
We can fix that 🙂 Thanks Ramjeet for the comment!
I am going to think of you on all of my runs this week! This post made me smile. Thanks!
Yeah! a running buddy! LOVE it! I will think of you on my runs too and our energy can mesh together!
EVERYTHING happens for a reason.
Yes, indeed! Fred!!!
Thank You for the blog, and sharing with us!!
My pleasure, Maria! Thank you for your comment!
I read that if you smile at someone you can change their day. You are always so nice anyway Loretta, you make everyone else life bright. But… for the record… I hate running
Love you, Dani! I am more brighter and productive because of you 🙂 Also love what you said for the record! Gave me a giggle!
Loretta, you have such a spirit, such a big heart
So wonderful to read your blog and have you as a friend
Dov, that is so sweet! Thank you, but the honor of your friendship is mine 🙂
Great post! Thank you!
Thank you, Stacy!
Thanks that gives me good fibs to think about.
Ha ha! You’re going to have to keep me informed on that!
Beautiful post Loretta! Wise words. Nice job on attempting some high-fives! My goal is attempt it at least once every run. Even if it fails, you put out the good energy. Mega love <3
I will definitely continue trying… it brings a smile to my face doing so! thanks Abby!